Piper and Dad

Piper and Dad

Friday, September 7, 2012

helping dad put my desk together
Donuts fool!!!!
Just contemplating obscure philosophical ideals...you know 2 year old stuff.
This cat looks like it needs a hug/headlock
First walk in the double stroller!
Just hanging out with dad!!
Sometimes you just need to put on a birthday hat, have some dinner and sing to the cats
Having a drink of water after a long bike ride.
birthday cupcakes!!!
 
Piper and Hadley enjoying a sucker after the Del-fest parade.
Hi there kitty!
Taking care of the horses with Papa
Mandatory facebook duck face pose
dounuts!!!
No Hadley I don't want to try your sucker!
Maizy at the Del-fest baby show!!
Piper rocking the Del-fest baby show.
What?  You want me to get down?  Why?
 
I love parade candy!!!
Taking the kitty for a walk
Piper and her new pumpkin shirt and her Elmo lunchbox that Maizy got her.
Angioplasty done....no problem....now lets go home.
Just cuddling with baby sister
Hanging out with the girls and poor outnumbered Nate
Just wearing my backpack doing some painting....
Checking out the horses!
Cheese!!!
 
Rubber boots, tiara, veil and a steel pot...you know ordinary stuff.
 

Maizy -2 Heart Defect - 0

Hello all!!

Well its been a very busy past couple weeks.  Last weekend all of us ventured with Uncle Scott, Papa Dave, Grandma RaRa and Megan and Torey Hamel to the Kansas State football season opener.  The girls had a great time, Piper loved running around and spent most of the day yelling "Go Wildcats!" and "EMAW Baby!!"  The Wildcats scored a victory and everyone was very happy!!  Piper asks now on a daily basis when we are going back to the football game. 

As most of you know from the last post Maizy needed an angioplasty to fix some thickening that appeared to reoccur.  However what it turned out to be was thickening around the suture sit from her open heart surgery with the reconstructed her valve.  However it was significant thickening, the cardiologist explained it by saying that they measure the pressure going into the obstruction and the pressure below the obstruction.  Which then gauges the severity of the obstruction, the cardiologist said that an acceptable gradient is anything under 30...Maizy's gradient before the angioplasty was 70!!! 

Happily not only was the procedure a success, it actually took less time then anticipated.  We actually even got to see Maizy's heart on video because the catheter had a camera on it.  We saw the before and after of the bloodflow throught the heart valve.  Even to the untrained eye the difference before the angio and after was significant.  The cardiologist said the Maizy's gradient went from 70...to 15!!!

They ballooned the area three times and it responded very well, the cardiologist said that naturally the area will just "remodel" itself so likely there will not be a need for another angio.  Also he showed us on the video that Maizy's body had started growing new vessels to bypass the obstructed area, and that her heart was very muscular because it's had to work harder to pump blood!  It's pretty amazing what the body can do.  The cardiologist told us that her stamina would probably improve quite a bit and he wasn't kidding.  Maizy's has been eating like crazy lately, and taking more formula at one time than she ever has!

After the surgery when we got her back she had a bit of fever that caused her heartrate to go up and when I say go up I mean at one point it hit 230!  For those of you who aren't quite sure just how high that actually is let me put it into perspective for you....if your heartrate went to 230...it would probably burst like a pinata at an 8 year olds birthday party. 

Thankfully it was just her body being a bit ticked off that another procedure had been done to it and after a dose of tylenol she was fine.  Her heartrate came down and she was fine.  Her color is better than it has ever been as well and she is doing well!

Piper didn't make this trip with instead she got to go play with Hadley Hamel who is Megan and Torey's daughter.  The girls took off as soon as Piper arrived and I am guessing they didn't slow down till Piper left.  At one point Piper told Megan and Hadley "I like hanging out with you guys!"

Piper stayed the night with Papa and RaRa and got to feed the bucket calf with Uncle Scott, and ride the gator with Papa and feed the horses.  Also RaRa took it upon herself to sing "Soft Kitty" to Piper when she went to bed at night, so now when I put Piper to bed I have to sing "Soft Kitty"....awesome....thanks for that RaRa.  For those of you who do not know what the song "Soft Kitty" is you need to watch "Big Bang Theory."

Today Piper got to see Aunt Bailey who lives in Florida who is in town for the weekend and hang out with Great-Grandma Dodo as well.  Apparently Piper had such a great time that when Traci came to pick her up she told her she wanted to go back to RaRa's house and stay!  Today was also the first time Bailey go to meet Maizy so we are glad that Maizy was able to come back so quickly so she could meet her!

All in all Maizy is doing fantastic, Piper was once again a fantastic and easy going little girl, and Mom and Dad are thrilled that everyone is back home and healthy.  We have been handed alot to deal with the past few months, but we have made it through and I wouldn't want to be on this journey with any else but the three ladies I have been blessed to have in my life.  And remember LIFE IS GOOD!!!!




Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Another journey


Hello everyone, I trust all of you are doing well out there.  Just wanted to update everyone on how things are going with our family. 

Maizy had her first cardio appointment this last monday.  Dr. Kane is a cardiologist from Children's Mercy that comes to Junction City about once a month.  Piper was more than happy to help Dr. Kane check out Maizy, even informing him that she was a doctor, and that "Maizy is ok!"

The doctor did an echo on Maizy and found that in fact she still had a small section of her aortic valve that is thickened.  We had been told before her surgery that on some occasions this happens, essentially you can not detect all of the thickening of the valve because the duct that we had to keep open to bypass the thickened area can sometimes hide thickened areas, it until it completely closes.  Dr. Kane told us they do their best to close that duct and get it all taken care of but in some instances they don't always get it...I guess we just happen to be that instance.  Needless to say we were not thrilled about that news, it means another trip to KC to Children's Mercy and another procedure for Maizy.  Fortunately its an angioplasty, which is where they go in and use a balloon to repair the small thickened area.  Thankfully its not open heart surgery and Maizy will only need to stay overnight. 

The rest of the report from the cardiologist was good, her heart muscle is strong, she is gaining weight, and appears to be doing very well. 

So please keep our family in your prayers as we head in for this procedure that hopefully will be the last Maizy will need.  She is strong little girl and she will do awesome.

Piper is doing fantastic, running all over the place as usual, and just being the fantastic little girl she always is. She starts gymnastics after labor day which is being taught by our friend Rachel Kueker, who is Piper's friend Avery's mom.  I wish her luck because between Piper and Avery alone there is going to be significant property damage...I gurantee it.  Those two girls are too smart for their own good! Rachel you are a better person than I!

Piper and I have recently began talking about our bicycle trip we are going to take to Switchgrass trails at Lake Wilson.  Piper is excited to go because she wants to ride the bike, look for animals, and eat lunch in the woods.  She seems the most excited about eating in the woods! 

We will keep everyone posted on the procedure and how Maizy does, thank you for your thoughts and prayers.

Friday, August 17, 2012

No I didn't forget about this blog!!

Hello everyone!  It's been awhile since I have updated the blog with what is going on with our family.  So I supposed I have alot to update everyone on!

As all of you know (well at least I hope you all know) we left the hospital on July 22nd, the doctors said the only thing we needed to work on was getting Maizy to eat more before we used the feeding tube.  The doctors said we could go home if we learned how to do the feeding tube and administer Maizy's medicine, if we weren't comfortable with it we could simply stay at the hospital.  Needless to say we told them we would learn to do the feeding tube we wanted to go home...now!  By the way the only medicine she really had was a multi-vitamin and an acid reflux dose neither of which she is still on.

So they trained us on replacing the feeding tube in the event that it came out, and they also had to teach us to administer the medicine.  Administering the medicine was a real chore (massive, massive sarcasm) let me attempt to replay this task to all of you:

1. Nurse brought in a box with an obnoxiously large medicine bottle
2, Nurse asks me if I can read the massive label on the massive medicine bottle
3. Nurse them asks me to read the label on the massive medicine bottle outloud
4. Then the nurse gives me a syringe and asks me to draw out the dosage that is stated on the label.
5. The end

As most of you who know me would expect I did not let this remedial task go by without making a comment.  I looked at Traci...then looked at the nurse and simply asked "Did you just have to make sure I know what numbers are, and if I could friggin' read?"

The nurse looked at me and said "Yes...you would be surprised"

So after Children's Mercy was comfortable with our reading skills, we were able to leave!  It was fantastic being able to leave, Traci and I were thrilled and we hurried over to the Ronald McDonald House to get ready to go home.  When we first were told we could go home we told Traci's mom who was there as well, so she immediately went over to the Ronald McDonald House and started cleaning up the room.  When we arrived at the house the room was the cleanest that it has very likely ever been...it was amazing.  Rhonda missed her calling in life, she would be an amazing hotel cleaning lady...seriously it was amazing.

We were ecstatic to return home and sleep in our own beds and to just be home!

It wasn't too long after we made it home that we were able to take out Maizy's feeding tube, and she has been eating like a champ ever since!  It seems like every day she gets a bit brighter eyed and smile a little bigger.  And she is gaining weight as well, she is now 9 lbs 5 oz!

Piper sure is loving her sister, every morning when she wakes up she insists that Maizy lays down in her bed with her, she gives her a big hug and says "Hey baby girl, hey bright eyes, hey baby Maizy."  Except for today when Maizy stretched out and let our a giant fart in Piper's bed, Piper giggled said "she tootied in my bed.....she can leave now."

All in all things with the girls have been great, Piper finally got to have a birthday party since she had her real birthday in Kansas City, hey what 2 year old can say she had her birthday dinner at a Thai Noodle Shop!!  Well her birthday was of course Elmo themed, and Traci and Allison Poore also came over and helped make cupcakes.  I was informed to stay away from the cupcakes and go sit with Maizy...apparently they are not privy to my amazing, super awesome cupcake decorating skills.  I did however overhear when Allison asked Piper what she thought of the cupcake she decorated reply with "Um...its different."  Nice Piper...real nice.

The last week has been a bit of a challenge, and I need to thank alot of people for helping us.  Traci had been having some pain in her ear while we were in KC, but we had so much going on she never made it to a doctor to check it out.  We ended up in the emergency room a couple weeks ago when Traci had severe head, neck and ear pain.  It seemed to have resolved itself when we left that day...well that it came back with a vengence on Monday.  Everything was fine on Monday when all of a sudden Traci said she felt like she had fluid filling up her ear, then she was hit with a massive headache along with terrible neck pain....then she lost her balance.  In the span of about 5 minutes she went from being just fine to collapsing on the floor.  It was monday morning and I hadn't had my coffee yet, so I let her lay there for a bit and had Piper crawl on her while I finished my coffee then I asked her if she could move because I needed to get to the bathroom to go pee....ok that didn't happen, if it went down like that I wouldn't be typing this blog I would be crippled, maybe even dead.

In all seriousness I was very concerned, we need to get to the hospital fast.  Thankfully Allison Poore was home and she came over to watch Piper while I rushed Traci to the hospital.  She ended up spending the night in the hospital and then getting an MRI on tuesday to see what was going on.  When it was all said in done Traci has an infection in her Mastoid, which is the hollow bone behind her ear, and she also has they discovered a viral infection in her inner ear.  Of course these all have names but I can't come close to spelling them so you just get a brief description.  Traci was bedridden from Monday till the evening on thursday.  Thankfully, Grandma RaRa, Allison Poore, Grandma Dodo and Aunt Delisa were around to help us out when they could.  So I have been in charge of the girls and taking care of Traci as well since Monday.  Thankfully Traci can now get out of bed and open her eyes and has been sitting up on the couch.  She is still dizzy, and her hearing is still distorted but she is on the road to recovery.  A big thank you to Dr. Cramer for all her help during this trying and scary time.

Piper enjoyed her time with just daddy, last night I made my pesto pasta with kale and white beans and Piper was very excited to have some macaroni.  Well I made Penne pasta...and when I gave it to her she looked at it and started screaming.  Apparently there is a very big difference between whole grain macaroni and whole grain penne.  She told me "this is not macaroni this is different" all I could do was say "it's all the same!!"  Piper responded to this by saying "no daddy it's not all the same...this is not macaroni!"  I had nothing...no response...so I made her macaroni. 

In all seriousness it was tough but the girls were terrific, Piper was scared but she was a big girl and she realized that mommy was sick so she wanted to help mommy all the time.

I am sure I am missing something but I will do a better job of updating the blog on our adventures.  Thank you to everyone that has helped us during this summer, between Maizy and Traci this summer has been a challenge...and Piper and I have decided we are moving...we can't handle this anymore.  I am buying a VW bus and Piper is going to learn to play the banjo so we can start a band.  Piper inform me today that her and I were in a band and the name of our band was "black beans and quinoa" so watch out world here we come.  Of course I am kidding, I love my girls, its been a tough road but I wouldn't want to do it with anyone but them.  Piper has been a champ, she has had to deal with alot more then most 2 year olds and she has been amazing the entire time.  On top of Maizy being superwoman and Traci being supermom I am one lucky guy!

Thank you to everyone for their help, and kind words, we love all of you and we are ready for this challenging summer to be over! 

Saturday, July 21, 2012

Big news....Huge News.....

Well it's been a few days since I last updated the blog, Maizy has been doing great, and still working on eating.  She is now weighing in at a hefty 7lbs 6oz! 

And finally Aunt Kathy Poore got to meet Maizy!!  Kathy and her family came by to see us on their way to Orlando for vacation.  It was great to see our fantastic friends who have done so much for us while we have been gone.  I have been told that Kathy, Allison, Piper and Traci  also had a late night spa in our room at the Ronald McDonald House. 

Piper came back from her stay with Papa and RaRa on thursday, I met them in Junction City where not only RaRa came to drop off Piper, but so did Great Grandma Dodo!!  She also bought us ice cream at the A&W at the truck stop where we met them.  For those you who know Dodo it's of no surprise that she bought us ice cream...that my friends is what Dodo does!  Also it worth noting that yes indeed A&W Rootbeer restaurants still exist and thrive...in truckstops in Kansas.

It's also worth noting that we have been informed that after over a month....WE ARE GOING HOME!!!  That's right, Team Ferrell is going home.  We both learned to place the little feeding tube in her nose last night, and other than that...Amaizing Maizy is all good and ready to get the heck out of here.  Piper is eager to show here the garden, her toys, the peach trees, the grape vines and introduce her to Scout and Kya!!!  Needless to say we are all ready to be home!!

The last 5 weess has been a trying and tough time, so much has been jammed in that it seems like its been 3 years.  Piper and Traci both turned another year older, we celebrated Father's Day and the Fourth of July, Austin Doering was born (Traci's brother Scott, and his wife Jess's new little boy) and most of all Maizy was born, went to the NICU, Had open heart surgery, went to recover in the PICU, came off her ventilator, had her chest wired shut, was finally held by her love ones, and learned to eat as well!!   It's safe to say Maizy has had jammed into her life in the first month more than what most of us have to deal with our whole lives. 

I would say that this month has been quite eventful, but through it all we made the best of our situation, and we are eager to finish up this adventure that life has given us.

As I have stated numerous times before we couldn't have done it without all the love and support of some many fantastic people, we even had people we don't know praying for us...it was truly moving to know how many people were thinking of Maizy in this difficult time.  In a time where the world consistently seems like a terrible place filled with terrible people, our family was shown that in fact that is not the case.  This world has amazing and caring people in it, who in tough times will take time out of there busy day to pray for you, say a kind word, or simply hope that things are going well.  We will never be able to pay back the kindness that so many people have shown our family, but I promise you we will pass on that caring to others. 

I plan to continue the blog to let everyone know what is going on as we take our adventure home, so I guess I will continue to be a daddy blogger!!

In closing, there are just too many people to name that have shown our family love and kindness so I will end this blog post by simply saying that every single thing that every single one of you did helped us along the way, help in the healing process and gave us strength to get through one of the toughest times in our lives...we love you all.  From the kind words and prayers, to the all our visitors, from those who offered their time and homes to us, and everyone back home who cared for our animals and our home...we love you all so very much.

Thank you to every single one of you.  We will be seeing you all very soon!

Saturday, July 14, 2012

Every day is another step cloer!

Hello all!!

It's been a few days since I last posted an update, and we have been focusing on getting Maizy to eat on her own, as this is the last hurdle to overcome before we can get home!  We were warned in the beggining that alot of times this is what holds up families from going home.  Namely because Maizy wasn't able to eat at all until after her surgery and recovery.  We are roughly day 5 of feedings and we started off on the first day with Maizy eating roughly 1-5 ml out of 60 ml from her bottle, but we are happy to say that today she totally rocked it, at one point she drank 50 ml out of 60 on her own.  This of course wore her out and she averaged about 25 ml on her own each other feeding.  So we are making great progress!!

Maizy has had more visitors as well, and people are now able to hold her!   My mom was able to come up on Friday,(after somehow taking roughly 30 minutes to park...apparently she parked in Lawrence) and we have had numerous others come by and say hello as well!  Grandma Rhonda was camped out by her bedside today, no doubt reading her World War II novels or showing her how to cross-stitch.  Piper will be going back with Grandma RaRa for a bit this week so she can be back home for a little while.

Piper and Daddy have been spending alot of time together lately so mommy and Maizy can work on eating, (eventhough it is worth noting that I am in fact the one who fed her the 50 ml...I am the bottle feeding champ!!)  So we have certainly had some adventures to say the least.  Recently we went the Trek bike shop here in KC, so Piper could pick out a new bicycle for her birthday.  She picked out a bright yellow Strider bike (its essentially a balance bike, it has no pedals, she just uses her feet) with pink streamers!  She was  a hit at the bike shop, as she took off running and returned with an $80 helmet explaining that she needed a helmet too!  I explained to her that in fact she already had a helmet, she paused for a second handed me the helmet and took off again.  I followed her over to the high dollar road bikes where she promptly pointed at a bike and said "I want that one daddy," it was a $4,000 carbon fiber road bike....yeah I want one too Piper!!

We checked out the Legends yesterday afternoon/evening so she could run around and see the animals and fish at Cabelas.  We probably walked in circles from the animals to the aquariums no less than 10 times, she just rode in the basket and pointed out to me all the animals and what sounds they made.  She also later that evening, with some prompting from dad, told mommy that she wanted a benelli shotgun...it actually came out "nelli please mommy......."  that a girl!!!

We then went and ran around the outside shopping area and then had dinner just her and dad.  She stopped in the middle of dinner put down her fork and started to point at her cheek, I couldn't figure out what she wanted...then I realized she wanted me to give her a kiss on the cheek, you bet kiddo, I can do that. 

Numerous trips to Trader Joes, Target ,other area bike shops, and coffee shops and Piper still wants to hang out with me, so I would say things are going good with Piper and daddy time.  It's worth noting that we have officially been in KC long enought that we have had to purchase essentials that we stocked up on before we left, q-tips, contact solution, toothpaste, and have gone through 2 and half bars of soap, shampoo and shaving cream...who keeps track of that kind of stuff you ask?  Traci does....that who.  As a side note we also have gone through 3 shower poofs....apparently they are 2 for $1 at Target for a reason and when those pieces of junk unravel....they are no less and 50 feet of shower poof material...

For those of you who don't know Piper's birthday is July 15th, which as I type this is roughly an hour and a half away.  Spending it in KC under these circumstances is certainly not what mommy and daddy would have chosen for her second birthday.  We are lucky that we have such an amazing little girl/big sister who just goes with the flow and does what ever we need to do.  She is an fantastic, and sweet little girl, I can see already that she is genuinely just a good soul, she says hello to everyone, waves at people and almost always has a smile on her face....unless we are getting close to naptime!!  She has made friends with people no matter where we go, from the coffee shop to the bike store, to the hospital cafeteria to the NICU....everyone knows and loves Piper.  Someday in the future when she is all grown up we will look back on this and I will thank her for being there for all of us, she made us laugh with all her goofiness and smileas, and made us cry with how loving and gentle she is with Maizy.

Tonight we had her birthday dinner with Grandma RaRa at Lulu's noodle shop.  Lulu's has been one of our main restaurants we go to when the cafeteria food is not bearable one more time, but we don't want to venture out too far. Piper has taken quite a liking to Thai food!  So we had thai food, (yes grandma RaRa had Thai food as well!!) and then we had birthday cupcakes that were special made for her by a very nice lady in the bakery at Hy-vee.  She loved the cupcakes, but even more than the cupcakes, she loved blowing out her candles....roughly 50 times.  Mommy barely had enough time to eat her cupcake b/c she kept having to relight the candle so Piper could blow it out again.  She also wished each one of us individually a happy birthday as she blew out her candles.  While it wasn't the big birthday bash we would have wanted, (we plan to have that in August) it was a good time and we were with each other, and that's all that matters.  One of these days we will take Maizy to Lulu's so she can share in the experiecnce as well.

So in closing thanks again to all of you for all your love, we couldn't have done it without every little bit from every single one of you.  Keep praying and stay happy!

We love you all!

PICTURES!!!!!!

Checking out the animals at Cabelas!
just sitting in her spot at the coffee shop...contemplating world peace...or how to acquire more cantaloupe.
Because sometime you have to take your cereal out of the bowl so you can drink the milk first!
Then you put the cereal back in!
Baby Kanye West in the house!
Saying good morning to baby Maizy
My new bike!!  Tour de France here comes Team Ferrell.  Accepting sponsors now!
Don't eat my cupcake RaRa!
Blowing out her birthday candle!
Pretty rings!!!
What?.....this makes total sense.
This place is huge and amazing!
Birthday dinner picture
CUPCAKES BABY!!!!
Urban dwelling baby
This is delicious milk!!
Piper and Mommy at Lulu's
Hmm....deep in thought/
Birthday cupcakes bling!!
blowing out candles take #43
blowing out candles #23
They aren't Aunt Jess's cupcakes but they will do in a pinch!